How to Calm a Crying Baby: Tricks That Work
The slightest discontent in small children easily develops into hysteria and nothing can be done about it.
Have you ever thought about what a crying child wants to hear from you?
It is unlikely that the baby is eager to hear a stern warning or a loud scream, which many parents are capable of in fits of irritability. Some of them consider such things a normal reaction to the whims of the child.
By the way, such a reaction often only makes the situation worse.
What phrases should sensible parents avoid in the process of upbringing? Remember to never use them:
Stop crying!
How tired I am of you!
Stop making things up!
Calm down right now, there are people around!
If you don't stop being hysterical, I'll turn you over to the police.
According to psychologists, such phrases develop self-doubt in children and lower their self-esteem.
Don't do this if your baby is crying:
1. Don't punish him, especially in public. Spare him humiliation - the child is just showing his emotions.
2. Don't avoid the conversation. The child should feel that you are always ready to help him. If you avoid the problem, the child will withdraw into himself and will not want to share his experiences with you in the future.
3. Don't give your child hope. A crying baby is unlikely to believe that everything is fine. It's better to help him cope with the problem than to give him hope in vain.
Parents should realize that children share their problems and experiences with them through tears. They simply do not know how to do it any other way. Do not forbid your child to cry: this way you will show that his emotions are important to you.
It's quite difficult to ignore a crying child.
Here are some simple and clear phrases you can use to calm your baby:
1. Let me help you.
2. Tell me what happened.
3. We will solve this small problem together.
4. I understand how difficult it is for you.
5. I understand you perfectly.
6. You can always count on my help in any situation.
7. Share with me and I will help you cope with it.
8. Cry and it will become easier.
9. I will be there no matter what happens.
10. Bad things happen to everyone.
You can be sure that your child will perceive words of support with more enthusiasm than prohibitions and ultimatums.
Forget about harsh phrases, otherwise you risk damaging the already fragile psyche of a small child.
Even if nothing comes to mind when you see a crying baby, hug him silently. This is enough for the child to feel support and share his experiences. Do not forget that care and attention are the best medicine for children's tears.
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