How to Learn to Communicate with a Girl Correctly: 5 Basic Rules
The lack of experience in live communication with the opposite sex is familiar to the Internet generation firsthand.
Mass culture presents young people with an image of a girl that is, to put it mildly, incorrect. And parents do not always find the time to explain to their sons the general rules of polite tone.
That is why pseudo-psychologists and “gurus” of building relationships have made the burning topic of love a source of pumping out money, offering to buy expensive “pick-up” courses and books like “How to understand a woman” from them.
In fact, to gain respect and good attitude from the female sex, it is worth remembering five simple but important rules.
1. Don't try to compliment women you don't know or don't know well with sexual overtones. Refrain from making any comments about women's bodies.
If you see a girl who is wearing bright makeup or a short skirt, it does not mean that she is asking for greasy compliments.
This is not a sign that she is interested in your attention. A woman can look the way she wants - this does not give you the right to sexually harass her.
2. Remember that the world does not revolve around men. Girls are involved in various, often public, activities: they shoot video blogs, give online lectures, draw, sing, take photographs, post photos of their work online, and much more.
They do it for their own development, to earn money, or simply because they enjoy it, and not solely to find a boyfriend or husband.
If you are impressed by a woman's talent, professional qualities or mindset, tell her directly, rather than stating that you would date her because of her skills and abilities.
3. Don't start talking about religion, politics, or sex with a girl you just met. Stop doing it even online.
If you approach the first person you see on the street and ask them to tell you about their favorite sex positions, there is a 99.9% chance you will be sent away or even get a loud punch to the jaw.
Violation of personal boundaries has never been a guarantee of constructive harmonious relationships in any society.
4. Don't be too familiar. 60-70% of men allow themselves to be too familiar with women all the time: addressing them informally when it is unacceptable, making inappropriate jokes, expressing their own opinions that were not asked of them, giving unsolicited advice.
"Condescending" attitude towards a woman as a child looks disgusting from the outside. Such behavior will cause rejection in every self-respecting girl.
5. The ideology of patriarchal society has turned women into aliens with an inexplicable “female logic” that only select representatives of the male gender can understand.
But in reality, a surprise comes out – women are just as real people with their own individual interests, preferences, needs, and dreams.
A person, regardless of gender, age, or class, needs understanding, respect, and communication on an equal footing.
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