Psychology of influence: how to make someone regret losing you in 3 steps

18.01.2025 20:01

Some people, after a breakup, want to make their ex-partner regret not having valued the relationship.

This is a very normal reaction of a person for whom the relationship was really important. For this case, there is a method consisting of 3 steps.

Effective rules of influence psychology are based on attention, respect and self-love.

Let the man go

The very first thing you need to do is to stop stalking the person and trying to get his attention back.

This tactic is obviously a failure and will only further distance you from the desired result.

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Human psychology is such that when you stop chasing after someone and truly let go, you suddenly become interesting to them.

After this, people begin to look at the situation differently and understand that they have lost a good person.

Focus on yourself and your business

The next step is not to wait for this person to write or call.

Take care of your own issues, focus on your own projects and hobbies.

Work, hobbies, and rest will help you take your mind off thoughts about this person.

If he starts calling or writing, don’t rush to answer right away.

A person must understand that you are not sitting and counting every minute waiting for the treasured message or call.

Understatement and mystery

If communication with this person does take place, do not rush to lay out everything that has happened to you recently.

Don't become an "open book" that anyone can read.

Intrigue, but don't reveal details. Communicate, but keep your distance. And it will work.

Author: Dmitry Bobrov Editor of Internet resources

Content
  1. Let the man go
  2. Focus on yourself and your business
  3. Understatement and mystery