"They suffer with him and without him": 3 qualities of women that attract manipulators and abusers

21.01.2024 19:41

The owners of these qualities have found themselves in situations dozens of times where men cleverly took advantage of them.

At first glance, it seems impossible to get out of this dead end. But it is not. First, you need to identify the qualities that attract manipulators and abusers to you.

In most cases, psychologists observe the same signs that lead women to the situation of “I suffer with him and without him.”

Emotional swings

Those with unstable moods are more likely to fall for the tricks of manipulators and become victims of abusers.

Such women experience joy and euphoria in a short period of time, which are quickly replaced by sadness and despondency. Sometimes it comes to increased anxiety and depression.

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Mental pain

Often women fall into the hands of manipulators when they are under pressure from some kind of internal pain.

It gnaws at them and constantly tries to break out. Women fight it in different ways.

Some people take to the bottle or show excessive love for food.

Others are looking for adventure in their personal lives. And this is an excellent non-verbal signal for an abuser.

Feeling of loneliness

Such women are afraid to be left alone. They constantly need attention, care, communication. Being left alone with their thoughts is real torture for them.

Earlier we talked about how a woman can easily survive a breakup with her chosen one.

Author: Dmitry Bobrov Editor of Internet resources

Content
  1. Emotional swings
  2. Mental pain
  3. Feeling of loneliness