Will Do More Harm Than Help: 3 Cases When It's Better to Avoid Telling the Truth So as Not to Hurt Someone's Feelings

13.12.2024 21:54

It has always been believed that in any situation it is necessary to tell the truth.

However, often a lie brings psychological relief, which is indispensable in a number of situations.

When lies work better than the truth

If a terminally ill person asks if he will get better, you might think that he wants to hear the truth.

But in fact, it is not for nothing that they say that hope dies last. And therefore, both psychologically and emotionally, it will become easier for him if the truth about his inevitable death is hidden.

The same applies to those cases when a project is presented to you for judgment, on which a person has worked for a very long time, and you do not like it at all.

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This is certainly not a reason to shower them with compliments, but it is also not worth disappointing a person in their hard work. In such cases, it is recommended to stop and say that this is a great start to the journey.

There are also times when a lie helps keep a promise. For example, you were entrusted with a secret that concerns a third person, and he asks you about it directly.

However, you have every right to lie, since a completely different person has entrusted you with a secret.

Author: Irina Tint Editor of Internet resources