In a relationship between a man and a woman there is always room for secrets and omissions.
Men often hide their thoughts, feelings and even fears.
The reasons may be different, and it is not connected with mistrust of the woman.
Let's figure out why men prefer to keep some things secret and how this affects relationships.
Hidden thoughts and feelings
Men often don't share their true thoughts and feelings, especially if they think it might cause a negative reaction.
For example, if a man is not happy with something in a relationship, he may remain silent to avoid a scandal.
Over time, such grievances accumulate and can lead to serious problems.
Psychologist Dr. John Gottman notes that unspoken grievances can destroy even the strongest relationships.
Men are often afraid that their words will cause a strong reaction, so they prefer to remain silent.
However, this only makes the situation worse, as the problems remain unresolved.
Complexes and fears
Men also hide their complexes and fears.
As children, many of them were taught that showing weakness was unacceptable.
This leads to the fact that they do not share their experiences even with close people.
Women, in turn, may not be aware of their partner’s internal conflicts, which makes understanding and support difficult.
Research published in Psychology Today shows that men are more likely to hide their emotions for fear of being misunderstood.
The desire to be protected
Men often want to feel secure in a relationship, but are not always willing to talk about it.
They may be looking for a woman not only as a partner, but also as a caring mother who will support and understand.
However, if a woman takes on too much responsibility, this can lead to an imbalance in the relationship.
Psychologist Sue Johnson, author of Hold Me Tight, emphasizes the importance of emotional closeness.
Men need support, but at the same time want to remain strong and independent.
It is important for women to find a balance between caring and respecting their partner's personal space.
Author: Elena Gutyro
