Many people encounter unpleasant interlocutors who are ready to “prick” or offend at any moment.
Not everyone knows how to communicate with such people without losing face in front of them.
An expert from the site "TUT NOVOSTI" on astrology, esotericism and psychology will tell you about the rules of communication with the offender Elena Gutyro .
Calm and conversation
If you are being bullied, don't immediately start screaming and showing your anger. This will only show your weakness. It's better to try to calm down and tell your bully what you don't like.
At the same time, you should not resort to accusations in the conversation, otherwise you will again end up being guilty.
Silence and departure
If after the conversation the offender remains unshakable, then you can calmly leave. It is good if you do this without unnecessary words. Perhaps this will cause the interlocutor to feel guilty, and he will think about his behavior.
Giving up hope for correction
It is important to be prepared for the fact that the person will not change. If the offender does not want to change his behavior, then it is worth thinking about whether he is needed in your environment. Perhaps the best solution is to stop communicating with him.
Dealing with guilt
Often after a conflict a person experiences a feeling of guilt, but sometimes it is groundless. If you cannot work through this feeling, it is better to consult a psychologist.
Now you know what to do in a situation with an offender.
Earlier we talked about what to do if a person gets irritated .
Author: Ekaterina Streltsova
Expert: Elena Gutyro
