Almost all loving people have a feeling of jealousy. Not all couples get rid of this unpleasant addition.
There are people in the world who know how to restrain the manifestation of their jealousy.
But we must not forget about those people who are under the power of this corrosive feeling. They limit their other half with strict boundaries.
Jealous men are very unusual subjects, worthy of special attention. We will analyze their behavior in detail. There are special shades of male jealousy:
The man strives to place his beloved in a "golden cage"
In fact, life in this very "cage" will be far from luxurious and refined. A jealous man will simply make his wife a recluse, depriving her of any opportunity to contact the outside world.
At best, the man will forbid his chosen one to communicate with some girlfriends who have a bad influence on her (in his opinion). Also, some of her colleagues and relatives will fall into disfavor.
He won't let his wife go to a corporate party, he won't let her go shopping with her friends at the mall.
In the worst case, he will force the woman to quit her job and take care of the house. Then she will be in real captivity.
A man wants a girl to dress up beautifully just for him
A representative of the stronger sex, obsessed with jealousy, is capable of reviewing the details of his chosen one's wardrobe. He will easily find flaws in any clothes: a skirt is too short and provocative, a dress with an excessively deep neckline, the heels on the shoes are too high.
Of course, after a detailed audit there will be dissatisfied statements and comments. At the end of the conversation, the jealous person will deliver his harsh verdict: all the rags in the trash!
The girl will definitely have to buy new clothes made of thicker fabric. From now on, all her skirts and dresses will be long, and her blouses will be closed and opaque.
However, a jealous type may first choose the outfits for his chosen one, but then change his mind and consider them to be revealing.
But there is another possible option: he will suddenly switch to cosmetics. He can throw away bright lipstick, eye shadow and mascara and in the future forbid his companion to wear makeup. Without a doubt, he will take all changes in the appearance of his beloved woman with hostility. The man will immediately decide that she is preening for a new lover.
Man demands that his beloved answer his calls quickly
This jealous guy will not forgive his beloved for a missed call.
Her duty is to keep the phone close at hand and to answer the call immediately. If for some reason she fails to answer, she will be severely punished.
At the same time, an unbalanced man can call his woman every five minutes to check. Even a rush job at work will not serve as an excuse for the poor thing, because a jealous man is terribly merciless. He will always demand a quick answer and a full report.
If he wants to hear the sound of the printer, then his chosen one will have to send some document to print.
If he doubts that his wife is working, he will ask her to pass the phone to her colleague or even her boss. It may lead to dismissal, because the bosses do not care about the quirks of their subordinates' husbands.
Man Takes Control of His Companion's Social Networks
First, he will politely ask his beloved to show all her correspondence, then he will insistently demand passwords from all her accounts. And God forbid some acquaintance or childhood friend will put a "Like" mark under her photo.
The jealous person's anger will know no bounds. He may not be able to restrain himself and put his caring friend on the black list. He doesn't care that the girl went to the same kindergarten with this guy or played with him in the same yard. Even if this friend has children and a wife, the situation will not improve.
A jealous gentleman will still make a dizzying scene of jealousy for his chosen one and will limit her communication on the Internet as much as possible.
A man wants his woman to be with him all the time.
He will not calm down until his other half agrees to tie themselves to him hand and foot.
According to the jealous man, a woman has no right to hide anything from him. Besides, she no longer needs personal boundaries. She should spend all her free time with her husband. Hobbies are no exception.
Want to draw or weave from beads? You can do it while sitting on the couch with your chosen one. Want to think about important things? And in this case, your beloved man is not a hindrance. Yes, he will definitely ask what the girl is thinking about, but this is not scary at all.
The companion's task is to describe in detail all her thoughts to her jealous lover and assure him that she does not dream of sexy handsome men.
Most jealous men don't stop at just one tactic. They successfully use all 5!
Yes, sometimes women are flattered by the attention and jealousy of their loved one. But only when the feeling of jealousy does not turn into a pathology.
Pathological jealousy is difficult to cure. On top of that, a person becomes dangerous and unpredictable.
It is necessary to break off relations with such a person immediately for your own good!
Previously, we talked about how to stop getting stuck in the past and start enjoying life today.
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
