It will be easier for a woman to make a decision if she tries to think about how she would like to live her life.
You also need to try to fit each of the candidates into it.
The next question to ask yourself is which one will suit you best.

You also need to get to know them both better, as no two people are alike.
Another important step is to understand what is truly important to you personally.
If you think you know them both well enough, then decide which qualities in them are more important to you.
You probably like these men for different reasons, so you need to figure out which reason is most important to you.
You should also understand for yourself whether the person adds partnership or friendship value to you.
It matters who you feel better with or who makes you feel more accepted.
You should also understand why you need to choose between two men - for marriage or dating.
As you age, many of your life views and values change and can influence those around you.