The union of two lovers is beautiful when it is built on the principles of mutual love and respect for each other's personality.
But it also happens that instead of the expected happiness, a woman experiences constant mental discomfort in a relationship with a man and gradually loses herself.
If you are familiar with this feeling, then perhaps your partner is deliberately "breaking" you. This is what tyrant men do, whose goal is to turn a woman into an obedient and silent slave.
Fighting a tyrant, trying to convince him and re-educate him is a waste of time. Such men do not change, even if there is a threat of losing the woman they love.
He would rather break up with you than compromise. Therefore, if fate has brought you together with a tyrant, run away from him without looking back. Below are several basic signs by which you can identify such a person at the very beginning of a relationship.
He turns you against your friends and relatives
An important strategic goal of any tyrant is to isolate his victim from his usual social circle, so that he has no one to turn to for help or advice.
Such a man will look for a reason to quarrel you not only with your friends, but also with your parents, sisters and brothers.
Alternatively, he will start to look offended and displeased every time you leave to meet a friend or relatives.
He controls your every step.
He needs to know everything about you: where you go, who you communicate with, what you do throughout the day.
At first, such interest from a man may flatter a woman and seem like a manifestation of love. But as the relationship develops, you will begin to understand that he makes you accountable because he does not trust you and wants to keep you under control.
He is overly suspicious.
A tyrant man constantly makes you justify yourself for actions you did not commit.
You have to prove that you are not cheating on him and that you do not even have such thoughts. Alternatively, he may start hinting that you are dating him only for the benefit (money, apartment).
The purpose of such manipulations is to develop a sense of guilt in you, to make you foam at the mouth to prove that you love him.
He constantly lectures you, reads you morals
Tyrants love to teach their victims how to live. The flow of moralizing can be endless. At the same time, the man will criticize your lifestyle, habits, actions, appearance, and so on.
This is done in order to develop complexes in you, to deprive you of self-confidence, to make you doubt your own adequacy.
After all, it is much easier to manage a person with complexes than a self-confident one.
He commands you
At first, he does this cautiously, watching your reaction. If you do not fight back and submit to the tyrant, he begins to act more boldly and persistently.
Eventually, he will start telling you who you can communicate with, where you can go, who you can be friends with, what clothes you can wear.
In response to a woman’s disobedience, a tyrant man becomes violently indignant and resorts to various manipulations: he threatens to break off relations, pretends to be offended, and starts a quarrel.
He leaves if you don't obey.
You shouldn't think that if you put a tyrant in his place or find the right approach to him, he will begin to respect and love you more.
The thing is that such men a priori do not need a normal relationship with a woman - they need a victim.
And if you don’t want to turn into an obedient victim, he will leave you, even if you are a beauty queen and miss sexy.
Earlier we talked about the unpleasant moments that can cause a man to lose his beloved .
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
