Women's intuition is a great thing!
And if you "hear" and understand its warning signs in time, you can avoid a huge number of troubles. This is especially true for personal relationships.
Intuitively, any woman can feel that her lover has started to “communicate” too closely with another lady. But how can this be proven? After all, a reference to intuition can be perceived as a sign of paranoia or suspiciousness.
Therefore, let's look at several signs that will help you understand that your beloved man has a mistress.
The wallet suddenly emptied
The surest sign that a man has a mistress is a change in his income level. After all, a new woman requires a certain level of courtship.
And there may simply not be enough money for the family. The excuses can be anything: from a sharp change in the company's payroll policy to a reduction in the amount of work.
One interesting fact worth noting is that all of these excuses are fairly easy to verify.
Especially if your significant other works for a large company. How can you do this? Just find your colleagues' contacts (thankfully, this can be done quickly and discreetly on social networks) and just talk to them about this topic.
Change of appearance
Another "alarm bell" that clearly shows the presence of another "lady of the heart". Its essence is very simple: the man began to pay too much attention to his appearance. Although this was not observed in him before.
For example, a person who likes to spend time in front of the TV with beer and pies suddenly started running and strictly watching his weight. And a fan of meat and fatty foods suddenly switched to healthy eating.
Another nuance: changing the wardrobe. If a man was previously not very interested in having new shirts/T-shirts/pants (the main thing is that everything is clean and without holes), and now he has changed almost his entire wardrobe, then this is already a clear sign that another lady has appeared in his life.
Especially if all the things are expensive, status-oriented and simply “scream” about the high income of their owner (although there was no mention of promotion up the career ladder).
Unexpected accusations of infidelity and unfounded jealousy
There are some interesting male specimens who, when they cheat on themselves, try to shift all the responsibility onto their legal spouse.
And a woman may unexpectedly face a situation where her husband will check her phone and email, demand a minute-by-minute report on her time spent, and in every way accuse her of flirting with other men.
If such behavior has not been observed before, and you do not give even a hint of jealousy, then you should think not about your own behavior/appearance, but about the possibility of your dear partner cheating.
After all, if he convinces everyone around him (including himself) that you are cheating on him, then he will “take off” all responsibility for the betrayal. After all, you yourself will be “guilty” in such a situation.
The emergence of additional work
This is also a very common option used by unfaithful men. They show unexpected imagination in terms of inventing new "work duties" for themselves: from unexpected rush jobs for a very long period of time to unexpected and long business trips to another city.
By the way, these “responsibilities” can also be checked quite easily, if any doubts arise.
For example, you can talk to the man's colleagues or even directly to his boss.
At the same time, politely justifying yourself by saying that you want to spend more time with your spouse, but “the cruel management so often sends him to other cities on work matters or keeps him behind working hours.”
After such conversations, the schedule of the faithful and how many times he “went” on business trips will very quickly become clear.
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
