Loneliness in a Crowd: Why We Sometimes Feel Separated from Others

17.01.2025 13:50

As paradoxical as it may sound, you can feel lonely even in a crowd of people.

Many people are familiar with this feeling firsthand, and therefore it is worth understanding its causes.

Where does the feeling of isolation come from?

Loneliness in a crowd is a complex feeling because its causes are not always obvious. Its danger lies in its cumulative effect and the fact that it can creep up on you.

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For example, feeling disconnected from other people can be caused by a lack of social connections, when a person has no friends or significant other.

And each person has their own established concept of the ideal. And the less a person corresponds to it, the more alienation they can feel next to people similar to their ideal.

Alienation can also be caused by stress and life changes, such as starting a new life in an unfamiliar city.

And another reason lies in low self-esteem, when a person convinces himself that no one will accept him as he is.

Irina Tint Author: Irina Tint Editor of Internet resources