Sometimes people in relationships begin to notice that they take more initiative than the other partner.
Let's figure out whether this is really the case and why one person in a couple loves more.
Strong and weak positions
Let's start with the fact that a person who allows himself to be loved is in a stronger position than someone who loves more. This is because the so-called passion trap appears.
At the beginning of a relationship, both partners try their best to please each other and put in every effort to do so.
When the heart is already won, the one who is in a weak position falls in love even more. And the one who is in a strong position understands that there is no one left to conquer, and therefore the passion can gradually fade.
Most often, it is the strong partner who initiates the breakup, since the weak one does not have the strength to do such an act.
Therefore, to prevent this from happening and if you value your partner, then both the strong and the weak partners should work in our relationship. And for this, the weak should become more independent in order to attract the attention of the partner.
At the same time, you shouldn't try to save your relationship at any cost. If the situation is truly hopeless and your feelings are gone forever, it's better to let them go and make an effort to find a new partner.
Author: Irina Tint
