Some of Sigmund Freud's phrases will not lose their relevance even in a hundred years.
One quote from an Austrian psychologist will help you to accurately identify a narrow-minded person during a conflict.
During a quarrel, a person always shows his true face. Some people only tell the truth during a conflict.
It has been proven that during a quarrel people are capable of going into a kind of animal state. For example, they start shouting, waving their fists, etc.
But there are those who behave calmly. This is what Freud's quote says:
"The first man who threw a curse word instead of a stone was the creator of civilization."
Psychologist Dmitry Goncharov noted that this is an excellent way to measure intelligence. If a person loses control over himself during an argument, then this is a sign of narrow-mindedness.
It’s another matter when the disputant remains calm and resorts only to words, without immediately rushing with fists at the opponent.
"He will be calm. Answer based on the facts, and if the interlocutor does not listen, then a smart person does not prove, but simply leaves. After all, it is useless," the expert shares his opinion on the b17 portal.
The psychologist added that people who know how to get out of conflict situations correctly are often more successful in life. They have highly paid and interesting jobs, and they are more satisfied with life.
Earlier we talked about a distraction maneuver that many manipulators often use.
Author: Dmitry Bobrov
