In an attempt to find true love in their lives, many people are willing to put in a lot of effort.
Is it possible to find or meet love?
It's a special feeling that can only be experienced. So it's worth understanding why it's so hard for people to find love in the modern world.
The modern world has changed
First of all, it is worth understanding the context of modern relationships. The world has changed, and with it, ideas about love have changed.
The age of the internet and social media has brought with it a plethora of new dating opportunities, but expectations have also risen.
The ideal image only gets in the way
Many of them harbor an idealized image of their future soulmate, created under the influence of:
1. Cinema.
2. Social networks.
3. Literature and others.
However, reality often differs from this image, which can lead to disappointment and difficulties in finding.
Criteria don't matter when chemistry works
Love is not only a matter of reason, but also of feelings. Chemistry between people plays an important role and it cannot be predicted or controlled.
Often people appear in life who do not meet certain criteria at all.
A simple example: a woman may want to find a strong and successful man who knows how to earn money. But what if there is a man nearby who she loves, but he is an ordinary "worker". Criteria do not help in finding love, but only destroy everything.
The desire to realize oneself
It is no secret that many people make colossal efforts to achieve their goals in life. Because of this, relationships always take a back seat.
Such a desire can be called natural, but everything is not so simple.
In an attempt to realize themselves and achieve something in life, many forget about emotions and their own desires.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is indifferent to a woman .
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
