Benevolent smiles sometimes hide hostility, but one question can bring ill-wishers to light.
By asking it at the right moment, you will receive answers that will reveal the true attitude of those around you.
This method is so effective that it will surprise even those who are used to trusting everyone.
Question as a key
Ask your interlocutor directly: “What do you really think of me?” and observe the reaction.
People who don't expect such frankness often reveal their feelings in the first seconds.
Mostly, envy slips into the voice of women, and irritation can be heard in the tone of men.
This technique helps to separate sincere friends from hidden enemies.
Why do people mask their feelings?
Some people hide negativity out of fear of being exposed or out of a desire to maintain the benefits of communicating with you.
For example, a colleague may smile, dreaming of taking your place, and an acquaintance may praise you, expecting your failure.
A simple phrase shatters their carefully constructed mask, revealing their true intentions.
Reaction speaks louder
Pay attention to the speed of response and behavior: quick words are usually truthful, while a long pause or evasiveness signals ulterior motives.
Men and women who can read these signs quickly understand who is worth trusting and who is best kept at a distance. Intonation and gestures complete the picture.
This question turns your perception of your inner circle upside down, revealing those who are only pretending to be friends.
Use it next time you feel doubtful and the result will make you think about who is really there for real.
Author: Elena Gutyro
