Family and close people are those who you don’t want to hurt.
However, there are situations when we hurt our loved ones unwittingly.
Let's figure out how to avoid such situations.
3 situations that hurt our loved ones
It can be very upsetting for your loved ones if you always turn the conversation around to your advantage. This is a sign of a narcissist, which few people will like.
It is recommended that the conversation be balanced and that attention be given to everyone being spoken to.
Your loved ones are also hurt by this pattern of behavior, when at every opportunity you recall old grievances.
Even if you only want to point out the truth, from the outside such behavior looks petty and vindictive. It is enough to say all this once and let go of the past: there is no point in living in what has long passed.
Devaluing another person's feelings is another way to cause emotional wounds. Trying to convince loved ones who are trying to share their experiences with you that their problems and emotions are insignificant can lead to further concealment of true feelings.
Author: Irina Tint
