Words can have a huge impact on relationships.
Here are a few phrases that will help activate a man's "hero instinct" and make him feel special.
"You are special" and "thank you"
Remind him that he is unique and important to you. This may "awaken" his desire to protect and care for you.
Show appreciation for his actions and attention. This will make him feel valued.
"I'm proud of you"
Emphasize his strengths and successes. Notice the good and support him.
Just try to do it sincerely, so as not to scare him away.
"You make my life better"
Tell him how he impacts your life in a positive way.
This will show that you value him and will strengthen his sense of importance.
"You know how to surprise me"
Emphasize his ability to bring joy and surprise. This will help him feel special.
Notice your man's unique traits and use these phrases to create a special atmosphere in your relationship.
What you shouldn't say to a man
Don't tell him that you will do everything yourself. Don't deprive him of responsibility and role in the family.
Do everything together to maintain mutual respect.
Also, don't interrogate him about every step. Trust him and don't forget that everyone has the right to personal space.
Don't point out that a man doesn't want to understand you or is doing something wrong.
Instead of blaming, try explaining your feelings and expectations more constructively.
And try to do it calmly, "switching off" emotions. After all, excessive emotionality will only interfere.
Don't criticize his skills. Instead, discuss what you like and what you don't.
And think together how you can improve your relationship.
Earlier we wrote about what to do if you lose interest in a person.
Author: Tatyana Khitrushko
