There is nothing strange about a woman comforting a small child or her friend. But what should she do if a man is crying next to her?
How to respond to tears she has never seen?
Should a person be reassured or should he perhaps be asked what happened? Of course not. But what should a woman do then?
No need to pester with questions
There is no need to try to figure out what upset the man, you need to give him time to calm down.
If he wants to open up to a woman, he will definitely do it. She just needs to be patient.
There is no need to rush
Even if several days have passed and it seems that the person has gotten better, there is no need to ask him about what influenced his condition.
If a man is ready to share his feelings with his other half, he will definitely do it. And if he is not ready, perhaps it is worth leaving the situation unresolved.
The man doesn't need help
More precisely, he does not need the psychological help that a woman in his place would need.
The main thing a man mentally asks for, but will never say it, is silent support and acceptance of him in any way, even when he is upset.
Yes, representatives of the stronger sex are not always self-confident and cheerful, sometimes all their strength leaves them, and a woman should understand this.
No need to be surprised
Yes, perhaps such a situation is unusual for a woman, but one way or another, she should not show her surprise caused by a man’s tears.
It is better to pretend that nothing happened, and then the person will definitely be grateful to the person.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is indifferent to a woman .
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
