When You Hear This, Run Away: 7 Phrases Toxic People Use

21.04.2024 17:10

Nobody wants to be surrounded by toxic people. But how do you recognize them?

It's actually quite simple, because toxic people often use 7 phrases that they use to belittle or manipulate.

"It's all your fault."

This phrase puts one in an accusatory position, emphasizing that there is only one person who is responsible.

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Toxic individuals avoid taking responsibility and tend to blame everything on others.

Of course, in some cases the fault may lie with the person, but in any case one should be rational and be able to highlight the main thing.

"You never do anything right"

This is a manipulative phrase aimed at undermining self-esteem and self-confidence. Toxic people seek to control others by making them dependent on their approval and praise.

"You are too sensitive"

This phrase deliberately minimizes our emotions, making a person vulnerable.

Toxic individuals do not acknowledge or respect the emotional realm of others, trying to suppress their expression.

"Forget about it, it doesn't matter"

Ignoring feelings and problems becomes standard practice for toxic individuals.

They prefer to maintain control over the situation by downplaying the importance of worries and concerns. They try to emphasize that feelings and emotions do not matter.

"You must always do what I say."

This phrase is a call for submission and control. Toxic personalities seek to dominate others, depriving them of their right to their own opinions and choices. Their goal is quite obvious, but it is important to understand that such people never take responsibility for their actions.

"I am the same as you"

Often used to justify one's behavior or aggression, this ploy is intended to create a false sense of similarity and solidarity. However, in practice, it only masks and supports toxic behavior.

"You won't understand what kind of difficulties this is"

Toxic individuals seek to maintain their control by convincing the other person to understand their situation or feelings.

This creates a barrier in communication and reduces the likelihood of conflict resolution. Of course, this phrase may be inherent in other people, but it is definitely worth paying attention to.

Previously, we talked about how to find out what people really think about you.

Valeria Kisternaya Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources


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  1. "It's all your fault."
  2. "You never do anything right"
  3. "You are too sensitive"
  4. "Forget about it, it doesn't matter"
  5. "You must always do what I say."
  6. "I am the same as you"
  7. "You won't understand what kind of difficulties this is"