How to Get Back to Life After an Abusive Relationship: 5 Important Steps

29.01.2024 16:56
Updated: 12.05.2024 23:40

Many people experience abusive relationships in which a person is violent towards their partner.

What to do if you just recently broke up with an abuser and can’t get over it?

Knowing the important steps will help you recover and start a full life. Elena Gutyro, an expert on astrology, esotericism and psychology at the MOS SMI portal, will tell you more about this.

Awareness and acceptance

First of all, it is important to accept the fact of abuse and understand that a person cannot be changed, and returning to a toxic relationship will only make the situation worse.

Farewell to the past

After breaking up with a partner, a person experiences negative feelings and a desire to return. This is completely normal.

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With this in mind, it is important to let go of the past, to tune in to a new stage of life, despite your attraction to the person. It is important to understand that over time, thoughts about the person will fade and open the doors to a new life.

Working with trauma

After realizing the problem and deciding to get out of the negative, it is important to work through the situation with a specialist. This will allow you to enter into a new relationship without a burden on your heart.

Taking care of yourself

Start taking care of your own body, emotional state. Start pleasing yourself with such little things as delicious food, massage, skin care, communication with positive people.

Letting go of the fear of new relationships

After the work has been done, it is important to decide on a new relationship. Remember that mutual respect, love and understanding can not only put an end to the painful past, but also let new happiness into life.

By following these tips, you can recover from an unhealthy relationship.

We've talked before about building strong relationships .

Author: Ekaterina Streltsova Editor of Internet resources
 
Expert: Elena Gutyro  

Content
  1. Awareness and acceptance
  2. Farewell to the past
  3. Working with trauma
  4. Taking care of yourself
  5. Letting go of the fear of new relationships