How many beautiful words have been said about men. They are strong, brave, majestic, enterprising and responsive.
But there are also some specimens that are called men undeservedly!
How to recognize an insecure man? Is it possible to change him?
Let your companion have many shortcomings, but this does not give you the right to become his mother or nanny. Do not forget that he is an adult. His character, way of thinking and temperament have long been formed. You will not change or adjust the man to your preferences, come to terms with it.
He likes to be cowardly, uninitiative and spineless. He is inseparable from his "shell", like a turtle from its shell.
Don't worry, this man will definitely find a suitable companion and won't be lost without you. Somewhere in the world there is someone who will calmly treat his fears, concerns, inability to defend himself and other features that are not typical for the stronger sex.
Do you prefer not to communicate with men of this type? Then your goal is to quickly figure out an insecure individual at the initial stage of acquaintance. Having recognized the "bad specimen", you will be able to quickly end the "friendship" without harm to yourself and him.
Now let's highlight 5 characteristic features of a representative of the stronger sex who is not confident in himself:
He looks nondescript, pales in comparison to his "tribesmen"
The appearance of such a man is very modest and unremarkable. He can look like a skinny nerd with glasses or a withdrawn fat man who is fond of fast food. Of course, we are not talking about an athletic build. As you know, athletic guys have a high self-esteem, they never remain in the shadows.
A few words about clothes. A type who is not confident in himself, dresses tastelessly. Stretched T-shirts and wide, worn jeans are integral parts of his wardrobe. In general, his style is shabby.
However, there are also neat men who dress to the nines and always take care of themselves. But this is more the exception than the rule. As a rule, determined individuals who want to look impressive and presentable chase trends.
He has absolutely no command of oratory.
Such a man is afraid to speak in public. Sometimes it is difficult for him to squeeze out a single word.
The type lacking confidence is inept at dialogue (oral and written). Instead of expressing himself beautifully, he starts to say banal things, which pushes the opposite sex away. Unfortunately, girls are not able to get into the head of an insecure individual and find out what he thinks.
Interesting fact: sometimes guys who are good at talking turn out to be unsure of themselves. They try to hide their main flaw with talkativeness and feigned cheerfulness. Such a clever trick.
He is irresponsible, he avoids the basic steps that all representatives of the stronger sex take.
This man has been running away from responsibility all his life. It is difficult for such types to conquer a normal woman who is used to bold actions and signs of attention.
It is difficult for an insecure man to approach a lady and start a conversation. And there is nothing to talk about developing a romance. He will stand quietly and wait for the pretty girl to take the initiative herself.
He often resorts to lies in order not to disappoint a woman.
An insecure type will start lying right away, without waiting for a better moment. He will definitely want to present himself in a favorable light, so he will distort many details, giving them a more positive and vivid coloring. But there is a problem - such a man can easily slip up because of his own insecurity.
He doesn't tell his beloved the most important words
But in vain! Romance and other displays of tenderness cause confusion in a man who lacks confidence.
If a girl kisses him first, he will blush like a schoolboy. This problem is almost impossible to solve.
This means that the woman will be left without cultural events, declarations of love, romantic dinners and trips to cafes.
We previously talked about the signs of a failing marriage
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
Expert: Elena Gutyro
