Every person has a number of topics that he or she would be happy to discuss.
However, the difference in gender does not always give us a clear idea that some topics are better not to touch on, so as not to cause a negative reaction in the interlocutor.
Sometimes a man's address to a woman has an absolutely unambiguous subtext, but for some reason it causes offense and indignation.
What do the fair sex not want to hear and where is it better to remain silent?
Weight
Many women find it extremely difficult to reach and maintain their desired number on the scale. Each of them is concerned about their own volumes to varying degrees. Skinny women want to lose more weight or gain weight, while plump women want to lose weight or have something more important seen in them than just their figure.
Very rare is the woman who can boast that she is absolutely happy with her kilograms, and even here she may be lying, secretly dreaming of changing something.
Telling a woman that she has gained weight is, to put it mildly, not the best idea. All her thoughts and concerns may switch to such an annoying fact.
When asked about fatness or thinness, it is better to say that a woman looks good than to swear your love and promise to love her no matter what.
Cloth
Criticism and prohibitions in clothing will irreversibly affect a woman’s mood.
By choosing a fashionable look for each occasion, a representative of the fair sex does not just dress up somewhere, for some event, she sets herself a certain emotional mood.
To interfere with this means to bring an imbalance into the fickle female psyche and the effect will be unpleasant for everyone. A woman's art of dressing should remain her advantage, which should not be disputed or criticized.
Other women
Comparisons with mother, girlfriend and other female persons do not bode well. Hearing that someone is better at something can be unpleasant not only for men.
The beauty and success of other beautiful women is much better in male company, where these virtues will be accepted as they should be.
Idleness during maternity leave
Yes, my dear also gets tired sitting at home and still feels very uncomfortable in isolation from the usual rhythm of life.
The most unpleasant thing is when a man tries to equate the time spent on maternity leave with rest or vacation. A woman with postpartum depression can react especially sharply to criticism about fatigue.
If it seems that there is nothing to praise the new mother for, then it is better to refrain from criticism during the first years of the baby’s life.
It is impossible to control your statements throughout your life. But an attempt to analyze the topics after which a woman loses her mood or conflicts arise makes it possible to avoid many quarrels and misunderstandings.
Earlier we wrote about how to quarrel correctly .
Author: Valeria Kisternaya
Expert: Elena Gutyro
