How to Get Along with a Stubborn Husband: Information for Wives

Stubborn people are found everywhere and anywhere.

At any production, leisure, in transport, in a store and cafe. Such people seem funny or even nice, but more often than not, their persistent behavior quickly becomes tiresome and irritating.

But what to do if the stubborn one is your dear and beloved husband. The wife faces a situation when she gives various arguments, begs, threatens, but the husband is against it.

The solution may be another scandal and a week-long move to mom's, but women are very cunning creatures. It is cunning and simple techniques that will help convince a stubborn husband.

Before taking action, you need to understand what is happening. Why does the husband behave this way, what do his words and actions hide? Personal experiences are hidden behind human stubbornness.

For example, a man is worried about a decrease in female interest in him. A classic picture: the wife is going to visit, the husband does not let her go, forcing her to stay at home.

What could be wrong with the communication of girlfriends? If you look at what is happening through the eyes of a stubborn man, you can assume that the wife spends most of her time on others, distancing herself and distancing herself from the offended husband. By being disobedient, the man reminds his wife of his importance.

Often, due to inflexibility, a wayward husband defends male authority. This is observed in young families, where each member of the married couple tries to take the leading place, not taking into account the position of the other half.

With stubbornness, the young husband tries to fight the growing pressure of matriarchy, reminding his wife and those around him who is the head of the family and who has the final say.

Another reason for male persistence is hidden fears that concern not only his person, but also his usual environment (family, children, colleagues).

To establish communication with a stubborn person without quarrels and reproaches, it is necessary to soften the relationship between spouses. For a successful start, it is good to understand that it is impossible to re-educate an adult. Until a person decides to eradicate his stubbornness, no one will ever change him. It is better to accept the obstinate person as he is.

It has been established that stubbornness is laid down in childhood as a counteraction to parental pressure, and this is not the worst trait. It can be reconciled with. In order for the climate within the family to be favorable, it is necessary to show the faithful that the wife completely trusts him, takes his side in any matter, supports all kinds of bold undertakings.

It would be useful to learn to trust your partner's intuition and experience more. Learn to support your stubborn person, but gently, without moralizing.

The next step towards peaceful existence under a common roof will be finding compromises and agreements on key issues.

It is sometimes useful to simply wave your hand at minor problems, try to adapt to them, solving them as they arise. Do not put pressure on a stubborn man. If a man does something wrong and gets the opposite result from what was expected, do not point out, prompt, hint, correcting the mistakes of your spouse.

The more often you reproach a person for his mistakes, failures and failures, the stronger the resistance will be when proving your rightness. What is advised to do: simply describe the situation, state the request, describe the way to solve the problem and shut up. Let the man make a decision in silence, without listening to prompts, without feeling pressure from the outside. Give the stubborn person time to think, weigh everything, make the right decision, ideally suited to both partners.

You should not involve outside helpers. Double pressure on a stubborn person can lead to terrible consequences. Often a woman seeks help from her mother-in-law, mother, or friend.

It is worth remembering that in any established family relationship, the third is always superfluous. The stubborn man will perceive the interference of a third person in his personal life as an encroachment on the man's independence and the possibility of making the right choice. This option will lead to a huge scandal. As a result, an even greater wall of alienation will emerge and stubbornness will increase.

If persuasion does not help, then you can change tactics. Just ask for help. Let the husband take on several tasks and solve them himself without the wife's interference. Also, joint work on the difficulties that have arisen will unite the partners, the stubborn man will stop feeling the pressure of loved ones, will stop showing his quarrelsome, intractable character. And most importantly, do not forget to praise the stubborn man for the help he has provided.

In fact, in real life it is quite possible to get along with stubborn husbands, you just have to learn to calmly accept their point of view and not try to change him.

As soon as a woman stops educating her stubborn man, she will soon notice that her husband has begun to listen to her opinion and acts as she would like.

Previously we wrote about how to regain trust after cheating .